So my girlfriend’s mother
HATES me. She found out that we were a couple 3 months after the fact and it was all downhill from there. It was funny to see the attitude difference because before she knew she was really nice to me and we had a few friendly conversations here and there but the second she found out it was the complete opposite. She started preaching to me and telling me how I was going to HELL. She even started to treat her daughter differently. She took away her clothes and started forcing her to be more feminine and overall just trying to change her. We were supposed to "break up" and cut all ties of communication. I chose not to give up so easily. My girlfriend and I simply found ways around her. It worked because here we stand still together FIVE YEARS strong. Having a girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s parent dislike you is a very hard thing to deal with in a fresh relationship and/or any relationship where you still live with your parents. If the parent tries hard enough, they can ruin everything. I don’t condone lying but, parents don’t ever really make dating an easy thing.
My advice is : If the person that you are with is really truly special to you and your parents decide to rain on your parade. Just find ways around it. There's so much technology out here now a days that it is possible. If you go to the same school make the best of the time that you spend in school. As for Long distance lovers... it’s a little harder but it’s possible. If you get allowance/have a job I suggest getting cheap cellphones to communicate and never letting your parent find it. Or there are texting apps on phones that you could use. There are also phone call apps as well. The point is there always a solution when the "sneaking around" comes to someone you love. You have to have thick skin to deal with a mother-in-law like mine so to speak. So if you choose this route, just be ready to deal. Speaking from experience I can tell you it’s well worth it.
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My advice is : If the person that you are with is really truly special to you and your parents decide to rain on your parade. Just find ways around it. There's so much technology out here now a days that it is possible. If you go to the same school make the best of the time that you spend in school. As for Long distance lovers... it’s a little harder but it’s possible. If you get allowance/have a job I suggest getting cheap cellphones to communicate and never letting your parent find it. Or there are texting apps on phones that you could use. There are also phone call apps as well. The point is there always a solution when the "sneaking around" comes to someone you love. You have to have thick skin to deal with a mother-in-law like mine so to speak. So if you choose this route, just be ready to deal. Speaking from experience I can tell you it’s well worth it.
Need more help?
http://www.theotherteam.com/how-to-deal-with-her-family/