Would you hit that?
Well …
As a lesbian, I’ve been asked that by both men and women. I’m not blind (yet), but I don’t automatically rate women and judge how they measure up to my dream female.
Well …
As a lesbian, I’ve been asked that by both men and women. I’m not blind (yet), but I don’t automatically rate women and judge how they measure up to my dream female.
Yes, I do have a dream female and she has my heart.
When the adult hormones first started going crazy, I’d lust after a couple females just like every other high school guy. After the initial years of puberty, I found other things to focus on, like artistic expression, getting into college, and football. Unfortunately, I had a friend who couldn’t sit through one episode of 106&Park without asking, “Would you hit that?” Regardless of my answer, he’d go on and on about how fine some female was on TV. |
Maybe it’s because men are biologically and socially setup to act this way, but it’s no excuse to reduce a woman to one good night. I’m not claiming to be perfect in this area, but I do respect any woman I encounter. Luckily, college has turned me off of checking out women. Nobody told me to stop my GAY ACTIVITY; the women that would catch my eye the most, repelled my mind/heart/soul within a few seconds of hearing them speak.
Scenario: Attractive female walks by with a friend of hers. They’re deep in conversation and she exclaims “I don’t care who Obama is, my dad knows the mayor.”
*Cue eye roll*
Scenario: Attractive female walks by with a friend of hers. They’re deep in conversation and she exclaims “I don’t care who Obama is, my dad knows the mayor.”
*Cue eye roll*
Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of eligible bachelorettes on campus. Just don’t expect her to be the first one you think about taking home.
Getting to know a woman is complicated, because the female mind is so complex! Dating may not be necessary, but a simple conversation will give you a better idea of what she’s all about. No two women alike (I know it’s hard to believe in some cases); some ladies want a full house, while others would rather travel the world without offspring.
If you’re not interested in finding out about her aspirations and thoughts, you should at least ask if she is single. When you ask and she expresses no interest in dating you, respect her request and you’ll be a better person for that.
I don’t like to over analyze the situation, but I typically don’t like discussing if I would hit that.
I don’t like to over analyze the situation, but I typically don’t like discussing if I would hit that.